August 6, 2018

Lessons Learnt, Lessons Unlearnt

Regrets are a part of life so we have to live with them but if they tend to turn into incurable deep sores, it is better to change.

Things have begun to change, well to put it straight I am changing myself to fit in things unlike earlier when I was trying to fit myself in. I have realized that regrets are stronger when you try to do things to maintain harmony or balance in lives around you. Well, it is just our thought that doing so will bring any change for the people around us. On the contrary, people begin to be accustomed to our behaviour and interpret our actions as our w way of life rather than seeing the real reason that is “them”.

The situations are the same but I have altered my pace and perception in an attempt to keep myself relaxed and happy. Somewhere along my path as I was trying to adjust every time I had begun to bother my body, (it started giving hints and then boom!)Therefore, out of fear of losing to the situations, I stood up and I am trying to take control of the things gone haywire.

So finally, I realized that better to do things the right way and adjusting others so that I stay responsible for my regrets too.

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4 comments

  1. Sounds tough! I try to remember that I can't control what other people do. I can only control what I choose to do.

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    1. I second your opinion. Sometimes we try to create a balance even after knowing, it will topple.

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  2. If you try to please everyone, you end up pleasing no one and feeling unhappy yourself I find!

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    1. Very True!If we are sad or miserable we eventually lose interest in the small moments of life that make it worth living

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